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The Reputation You Are Building (Whether You Realise It or Not)

When professionals talk about reputation, they often focus on visibility. Profiles, platforms, testimonials, performance metrics, titles. All of these matter. But reputation does not begin in public.

It begins in private.

Long before anyone else forms an opinion of you, you are forming one of yourself. And that internal evaluation shapes how you show up in ways that are subtle but powerful. Credibility is rarely created in a single breakthrough moment. It is built through patterns. Patterns of follow-through, preparation, and composure that accumulate over time.

If you are serious about your career and the long-term value of your professional reputation, there are three areas worth examining deliberately.

1. Audit the Reputation You Are Building With Yourself

When I talk about auditing the reputation you are building with yourself, I am not referring to your long-term ambitions or strategic plans.

I am referring to your ordinary commitments.

Responding when you say you will. Preparing properly for meetings. Following up when you promise to. Doing the uncomfortable but necessary work even when there is no immediate reward.

Ask yourself three questions:

The answers are rarely dramatic, but they are revealing.

Your internal reputation inevitably influences your external one. People experience it in your clarity, your steadiness, and your consistency long before they consciously assess your capability. If you frequently override your own commitments, it affects how decisively you operate. If you consistently honour them, that self-trust becomes visible.

Professional credibility begins with the standard you hold yourself to when no one else is measuring it.

2. Replace One Testimonial With an Impact Story

Praise is easy to collect. Transformation is harder to communicate.

Instead of gathering more testimonials, take one you already have and examine it more carefully.

Ask:

An impact story is not about highlighting how impressive you are. It is about making change visible and transferable.

If a testimonial simply reinforces your strengths, it generates admiration. Admiration is pleasant, but it does not always drive belief. When a story clearly demonstrates a before-and-after and allows someone else to see their own situation reflected in it, credibility expands.

Reputation scales when others can articulate the value of your work clearly and accurately without you being present.

3. Prepare Intentionally for the Conversations That Shape How You Are Experienced

Every professional role contains a small number of recurring conversations that quietly define how you are perceived.

They may involve negotiation, feedback, expectation-setting, uncertainty, or strategic direction. They are rarely dramatic, but they are consequential.

Choose one conversation you have regularly.

Do not script it.

Instead, prepare for it intentionally by clarifying three things:

Prepared does not mean rehearsed. It means considered.

Over time, people trust you not because you are flawless, but because you are consistently ready. That readiness builds a reputation for steadiness and reliability that compounds.

Reputation is not built in a single keynote, a single promotion, or a single achievement. It is constructed in repetition. In the way you handle everyday commitments. In how clearly you communicate impact. In how deliberately you approach conversations that matter.

The professionals who command long-term trust understand that credibility is not an accident. It is an asset. And like any asset, it strengthens when it is managed with intention.

If you take these three actions seriously, you will not simply appear more credible. You will become more consistent. And consistency, over time, is what turns professional competence into enduring reputation.

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Claire Dowdall

Claire Dowdall is the Director of Brand for Exactly What to Say, shaping the strategy that supports its growing community of Certified Guides. With a background in branding, marketing, and community building, she focuses on creating clarity, consistency, and connection across the brand. Passionate about the power of language and influence, she works to ensure Exactly What to Say continues to grow as a trusted resource for leaders and experts worldwide.

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